How to get what you want in life…
My biggest realisation on getting what you want in life.
If you want something in life, ie. a thing, it seems like universally it works out if it’s not coming from a feeling of deficit, a feeling of desperateness, or a feeling of need.
When people are NOT coming from an insecure feeling, they will often have an idea of what they want in life and they will move towards it!
They move towards it successfully when they don’t have a negative feeling or an insecure feeling.
They move towards it when it doesn’t matter one way or another.
They move towards it when the thing is just … a delight, a game, a dessert! 🍰
“Mmm… what about that? Why not? Mmm… It’s going to be fun! Ha! That’d be nice! Let’s play! “
Then you can feel it’s easy to move towards the thing because it just doesn’t matter! There is no attachment! There is no neediness!
The insecure feeling of attachment just stops acquisition! It makes the whole thing sticky, it just doesn’t happen! The whole thing just doesn’t move! There is friction. There is loss of energy. There is no room for creativity. Arrrghh!!!!
It’s easy to get what you want if you see what you want as the frosting rather than the cake!
