Book suggestions

We choose to suffer.

WE CHOOSE TO SUFFER.

In each and every moment, what you’re experiencing in the realm of your emotions and mind, and the effects–to a latter degree–within the body are there because you, from your infinite freedom, have simply selected that experience to focus your attention on so you can see what the effects are.

Nothing that you experience is caused by anything outside of you.

You experience only the effects of your own choice.

From The Way of Mastery, a book suggested by my mentor and Ultimate Coach Steve Hardison.

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Learning myths and the reality

LEARNING MYTHS and … the reality!

I’m currently reading Kelly Palmer‘s new book Expertise Economy. Pay attention, please!

MYTH 1 – People use only 10% of their brains.
REALITY 1 – You use almost the entire capacity of your brain.

MYTH 2 – People are either right-brain thinkers or left-brain thinkers.
REALITY 2 – The left and right parts of the brain do not function completely separately and learning has nothing to do with the hemispheres of your brain.

MYTH 3 – People have an optimal channel, visual, auditory, etc. through which they learn.
REALITY 3 – People use as many channels to learn as they can access. Learning becomes more effective when all the senses are combined into the learning experience.

MYTH 4 – There are certain windows of learning and when these windows have closed, there is no chance of them being reopened again.
REALITY 4 – People can learn new things at any age! The neuroplasticity of our brain allows us to learn new things and build new skills all throughout our lives.

BOOK here – https://amzn.to/2JrP4sQ

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Your suffering is trying to teach you something

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Listen to your suffering for it’s trying to teach you something.

You’re probably suffering because there is no meaning and purpose in the way you’ve chosen.

Viktor Frankl spent three years in Auschwitz and other concentration camps during WWII. In his book, Man’s Search for Meaning, he writes:

Even though conditions such as lack of sleep, insufficient food and various mental stresses may suggest that the inmates were bound to react in certain ways, in the final analysis, it becomes clear that the sort of person the prisoner became was the result of an inner-decision and not the result of camp influences alone. Fundamentally then, any man can, under such circumstances, decide what shall become of him – mentally and spiritually.

If there is a meaning in life at all, then there must be a meaning in suffering. Suffering is an eradicable part of life, even as fate and death. Without suffering and death, human life cannot be complete.

The way in which a man accepts his fate and all the suffering it entails, the way in which he takes up his cross, gives him ample opportunity – even under the most difficult circumstances – to add a deeper meaning to his life.

There is also purpose in life which is almost barren of both creation and enjoyment and which
admits of but one possibility of high moral behavior: namely, in man’s attitude to his existence, an
existence restricted by external forces.

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Happiness cannot be pursued – Best advice ever.

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Tonny Robins recommends this book. Viktor Frankl – Man’s Search for meaning. I’m only thirteen pages into it but I had to stop to share this with you.

“Don’t aim at success. The more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side effect of one’s personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one’s surrender to a person other than oneself. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: you have to let it happen by not caring about it. I want you to listen to what your conscience commands you to do and go on to carry it out to the best of your knowledge. Then you will live to see that in the long-run—in the long-run, I say!—success will follow you precisely because you had forgotten to think about it”

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Four Great Books about Marketing

These are my favourite books about marketing: 
 
1. Seth Godin – This is Marketing. OMG, I love this guy. He is the marketing guru. Please, don’t miss his latest interview on Tim Ferriss podcast. That’s gonna blow your mind. Trust me.
 
2. Contagious – Jonah Berger. The best book which shows you what stuff is shared online and why. If you want to get into the psychology of viral marketing get this one NOW!
 
3. Expert Secrets – Russell Brunson. This is the ONE book for those who have something to share with others but don’t know how to build their tribe. You can apply the infinite wisdom of this book to help your clients achieve their goals and build their brand.
 
4. Everything is Marketing – Fred Joyal. This is a book about dental marketing. However, the lessons in this book are applicable to the marketing of any product or service.
 
5. Last but not least (well that should be # 1 in the list actually). Study the 25 cognitive biases by Charlie Munger. You need to understand how people think and how they’re hard wired. The biases are the bible of marketing and selling. Without understanding the biases and how they apply to marketing, you simply can’t sell anything. If you want all my notes on how to apply the cognitive bias theory to marketing, send me an email and I’ll share them with you.
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Expert Secrets – Russell Brunson

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Expert Secrets by Russell Brunson. This is the ONE book for those who have something to share with others but don’t know how to build their tribe.

My motto is “Those who compromise their dreams just to feel financially safe, commit a crime against themselves and humanity.”

This is what this book is all about.

Have you got something to share which can transform the lives of a few people? Then, you’ve got to do it because these people need you and you need them. It’s about your calling, your purpose and what you’re here in this world for.

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Don’t give up – Habit Payoff is Non-Linear!

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Lots of meat in these four paragraphs.

Excuse my exaggeration but these are the wisest words a human being has ever said in this world when it comes to habits:

“We often expect progress to be linear. At the very least, we hope it will come quickly. In reality, the results of our efforts are often delayed. It is not until months or years later that we realize the true value of the previous work we have done. This can result in a ‘valley of disappointment’ where people feel discouraged after putting in weeks or months of hard work without experiencing any results. However, this work was not wasted. It was simply being stored. It is not until much later that the full value of previous efforts is revealed.”

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Friends VS Money. What makes you happier?

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Hey guys,

Connected. Insanely good book. I’m only 50 pages into it and it’s already blown me away.

So, this is what I wanted to share with you.

You’ve got 15% more chances of being happy if you’re directly connected to a friend who is happy! 😊 😊 😊

You’ve got 10% more chances of being happy if your friend’s friend is happy (2 degrees of separation)! 😊 😊

And 6% more chances if the friend of a friend of a friend is happy (3 degrees of separation)! 😊

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